We went to Tahoe this weekend and oh my god it was such a short weekend. We went up for Cayla's birthday and so I can go see Danielle's new house she bought! It's so crazy that we're in our mid-twenties now. Like damn. I knew people in high school who I wasn't that close with who are dead, or pregnant, or married. But now I have a friend who I still hang out with who just bought a house. She has a mortgage. fuckkkkk.
Is there ever a time where you feel like you're truly an adult? When does that happen?
Anyway I wish we had more time up there. I feel like every weekend Randy and I are doing stuff for other people. We haven't taken a weekend for just us where we just get away. Or even stay at home and just hang out and do things for each other. I love both of our friends and family and I don't want to neglect them but there's only so much of us to go around and sometimes at the end of the day we don't have anymore to give towards each other.
So we got up to Tahoma after getting off work on Friday, had an hour to chill and unpack then we met Cayla and her friend Taylor in Tahoe City for drinks and food at like 11. We hung out for an hour till Bridgetender closed and went back to the cabin to sleep. The next morning we woke up, got a bomb ass breakfast at Fire Sign Cafe and Randy and I headed off to Reno to check out Danielle's place while Cayla and Taylor went hiking. Danielle has such a cute simple house with a massive backyard. Randy took a nap while I caught up with her. Then we headed off to Lowe's to help Danielle get a new fridge they had trouble delivering set up in her house, fridges are surprisingly light girl, I guess they don't come full of food lol. Anyway we got pizza on the way back and watched Super Troopers with Cayla and Taylor until we all passed out.
The next morning we got some cereal and eggs from this little market down the street and started cleaning up the cabin. We headed into Tahoe City to rent some paddle-boards for a quick trip out on the lake. Scooby was too interested in chasing waves to stay on the board so everyone went out while I threw some balls for Scooby and got my tan on. After that we got some food and bomb ass beer from Tahoe Mountain Brewing Co, said our goodbyes and headed back down the mountain.
I'm still recovering from all the exhaustion, Randy and I just had time to do a bit of laundry and put all our clothes away then get ready to go back to work the next day.
One day I want to be able to do just nothing. One day I will, but we're still working out the balance of blending our lives together while still maintaining all our relationships.